<p>If you’ve read my stories (either on my website or, hopefully, as a Patreon supporter at the Cuckold Stories level), you know that I’m a big believer in the power of language to produce arousal (my article on the art of verbal humiliation is another example of how powerful I believe a bit of a well-delivered dirty talk can be).</p><p>My belief is based on my experience, both in my own life and in my writing. Sometimes, a well-crafted cuckold caption can provide enough arousal to fuel an orgasm. Sometimes, a short dialogue exchange in a story can have a reader’s heart pounding (and his cock throbbing, with any luck). Sometimes, a little bit of dirty talk can be enough to make a man completely lose himself in his desire.</p><p>Though there are many words, phrases, and dialogue exchanges that can thrill a cuckold, today I’ve been thinking about two words that, when put together, have proved exceptionally potent in my life. I don’t think they’d hold the same power for every cuckold (or would-be cuckold), but I suspect many of you would love to hear your wife say, “My boyfriend,” in all sorts of contexts.</p><p>For instance, “I’m going to Victoria’s Secret to buy something sex to wear for my boyfriend, would you like to come?”</p><p>Or, perhaps, “I’m going to spend the night at my boyfriend’s house.”</p><p>Or, “My boyfriend and I are going to start having unprotected sex.” Of course, that one’s exciting for other reasons too, but you get the point.</p><p>There’s so much power contained in those two words. First, a married woman isn’t supposed to have a boyfriend. She has a husband, after all. Why would she need a boyfriend? That’s the fun of it though, isn’t it? A married woman isn’t supposed to have a boyfriend, so it makes it that much naughtier and more thrilling when she does have one, especially if her husband finds it all immensely arousing too.</p><p>It’s not often that I have someone in my life I’d refer to as my boyfriend (it’s harder than you might think to find a man that I like enough to want to spend time with and that’s okay with being in a relationship that can never go beyond basic boyfriend status), but it’s a glorious experience when it happens, in part because the hottest time in a relationship is when it first starts, and in part because that hotness also leads to the most incredible heat with my husband.</p><p>I’ve talked with him about it and he’s expressed that the pleasure of it is born out of what the term means. First, of course, there’s the notion that I’m having terrific sex with my boyfriend. There’s also the notion that I have feelings of some sort for him that go beyond wanting him to be someone I fuck. There’s the notion that I spend time thinking about him, wanting to do nice things for him, etc. All of that, and so much more, to be honest, gets rolled up into this two word phrase – My Boyfriend – that then carries with it the incredible power of all those different notions, including some my husband probably can’t even access.</p><p>Every hotwife/cuckold couple is different. Some aren’t at all comfortable with the wife seeing a guy more than once. Some institute rules to try and limit any sort of emotional connection. Some are comfortable with the wife falling in love with other people. That’s how it should be. Every couple should figure out what works for them. I can say that I find the most pleasure in cuckolding when I find someone that I can connect with on that deeper level, but it’s not just because I’m connecting with him. It’s also because of what it leads to with my husband.</p><p>I enjoy the way that having a boyfriend from time to time really does spice up our marriage. Think back to the idea of how two words can be so powerful. It’s been a while, but I can still see the look on my husband’s face when I say something like, “I think I’m going to give my boyfriend a blowjob tonight,” or, “I swallowed my boyfriend’s cum tonight,” or any one of dozens of other uses of those two delightful words. It’s certainly not the same for every couple, but I know that by saying “My boyfriend,” I’m making that little bit of dirty talk so much hotter for him, and for me. For other women it might be hotter to say, “My bull,” or an entirely different phrase.</p><p>The takeaway, I think, is that discovering what thrills you both is the real key to making cuckold and hotwife play work in the long term. If it’s serving just one of you, the end result is almost certainly going to be marital strife. If it serves both your needs, the end result should be long-lasting happiness, and that’s what we’re all looking for, right?</p>